Yeah, I think you're forgetting the part where- She's a child! You don't use psychic powers on a child- She can keep her secrets it's probably all who likes who stuff anyway- hardly relevant at all.

And if she doesn't know what we want to know there's no point in it and I will not allow it. Invading the mind of anyone- especially someone unwilling, it can be very damaging no matter how much you think it won't harm them.

Forcing your way into anyone's mind, no matter what your reason is and how gentle you intend to be can still be traumatizing- especially to girl who thinks of us as figments of the imagination. It's basically like saying you're going to rape someone oh but you'll be gentle about it- it still does the same amount of damage.