....I fail to see how you could count me as a 'friend'. [People don't make friends with Tris, and it's pretty clear that Saguru calling her such still makes her uncomfortable.

Especially with how she's been acting.] Especially considering I'm not a very good one, if I was so busy having an- an indulgent fit of high drama over how terrible my life is, to the exclusion of thinking about anyone else. [Even bringing up that she has problems gets this very visible body-language 'urge to bolt'.]